Did today matter? Why or why not?
Author: Darren
The Mathematics of Gift
Gifting has an exponential ripple effect.
Chung, Restauranteur
“If I have no issues at work and no issues in my personal life, that’s a perfect day. Whatever I do goes smoothly.”
Jimmy, Dance Teacher
“Consistency. I do this [dance] everyday. There is no more plan or steps, it’s just a feeling. I have to do it until I reach a feeling: ‘Yeah, I’m good.’ It’s a release, a deeply soulful activity to me. That’s a perfect day. Everything else is icing.”
On Waking Up Late
When I’m not living my perfect day, I’ve learned to examine the context surrounding my behavior, and question the assumptions behind not only my perfect day but what conventional wisdom says is good, right and acceptable. Most of all I’ve learned to forgive myself.
Manuel, Project Manager
“Having the feeling of achieving something. Then rewarding yourself.”
Let’s Crush “Crushing It”
Before using ready made phrases I’ll pause and think: do they expand or shrink the listener’s worldview? Do they invite or mute conversation? What worldview do they enforce? Better yet, I won’t use them at all.
How powerful are the narratives that we hold others in? And that others hold us in?
Marketing begins with the questions: “What does the other party want? What does it value? What are its goals? What does it consider results?”
Movie Theaters: Endgame
The age of distraction-free movie going is over
Outsmart Waste by Tom Szaky
To outsmart waste we need to eliminate the very idea of waste.
Rebecca, Working Mom
“My perfect day is free form, not feeling rushed at any point, just being free to go… I read that book, I paint that picture, I listen to that thing, I finish that project, whatever it is, I take my time to do it… I literally have space and time to approach the day.”
Consider the Shop of Hope or your local pagoda.
Your guide to refusing, reducing, reusing, recycling and rotting in Ho Chi Minh, Vietnam. Find zero waste communities and zero waste vendors here.
Jennie, Tech Consultant
“I’m a project based person but I need a clean process… My perfect day has to be different everyday. It has to have flexibility to support my interests and necessities at the time… Having a process allows me to introduce variety and spontaneity in a much more specific and clear way and allows me to assess it.”
Eating Mostly Plants
I eat mostly plants because it’s good for my health, animals and the planet.
JJ and Rola, Teachers
“To create something is to add to the world” and “I’m the happiest when I’m connecting with people who elevate my consciousness and make me feel connected and with purpose.”
Tomo, Developer
“I think there would be some drugs involved to be honest… and some elements of hedonism and a lot of music. I think I would enjoy a mix of those 3 things.”
Salah, Coffee Shop Owner
“People are greedy and always want more: lots of money, girls, fun nights out. When you’re young you want everything fast, you don’t know what’s important. As you get older, you realize that the things that matter are the small things, the things you take for granted. You never realize what you have until you lose it.”
Chew, Retired IT Professional
“I love my [retired] life right now. Life is good. I can’t complain. It’s wonderful.”